The holiday season is a wonderful time to thank our incredible support teams. Let’s face it, they can make your life and treatments go a lot smoother (even if we don’t exactly make their lives easier, at times). There are countless ideas for thoughtful gifts that will bring a smile to any caregiver’s face, but I’ll just share a handful…
1) For the female or enlightened male caregiver, a massage gift certificate is awesome! A chance to take care of them with a little pampering.
2) For the male caregiver (or far more patient female than I am), a gift certificate for a round of golf is a much needed get away.
3) Books for the readers or gift cards for the virtual readers. 😉
4) Even something as simple as a coffee mug can be a wonderful gift. Fill it with either gourmet coffee, tea or cocoa. Heck, I’d like that!
5) A gift card to a great restaurant is another great idea and wonderful way to relax.
These are little things, but they count. You don’t need to do something monumental, but caring enough to do something is monumental.
Thank you for reading and have a wonderful holiday season!
As someone that has put up with the holidays while dealing with treatment, I can tell you that a little, well thought gift can be gold. It doesn’t have to be complicated, but there’s a few things that stand out.
Here are a few ideas:
1) Soft cuddly blankets. Easy to find and when going through treatment, we often are cold.
2) For those going through chemo, a soft hat to keep heads warm and look nice, without itching. For those struggling with hair loss, something nice is gold.
3) Also hard candy is nice when taste is screwed up by treatment. Old fashioned lemon drops are wonderful and easy to find.
4) ANYTHING offering hope. From signs with quotes, to books on the subject; we’re grasping for all the hope we can grab hold of.
5) Gift cards are always a winner, but package them up in clever ways. My music rules, so iTunes gift cards were always great things.
These are just a few little things, but the main thing is not to avoid the friend with cancer because they’ve never needed you like they are right now. I can tell you first hand that it’s an awful feeling to see all of your friends bail because you’ve got cancer and they can’t deal with it. Be there; take them shopping, to lunch or anything that can get their minds off of treatment.
It doesn’t take a lot to be a friend, time and simply being there is the best gifts offered. 🙂
Have a wonderful week and see you soon!